This week started with constant travel, but after a few days, I realized sightseeing was stressing me out. I just wanted to relax and be present. Unfortunately, I got sick. The last few days were a blur of endless tissues and middle-of-the-night wake-up sickness. I guess my body isn’t used to bouncing around entirely new environments. Sometimes, I wonder is solo travel lonely? It’s a question I never thought I’d ask, but here I am—feeling isolated in this beautiful place.

Three Trinities of My New Year Resolution Check

The “Book” trinity of my 2024 resolutions took a hit. I didn’t read much, let alone learn a daily lesson. For the “Miles” trinity, I didn’t find a gym, but I did manage three runs. Running itself was fantastic, but the super dry weather wreaked havoc on my skin and… well, other places. The “Matters of the Heart” trinity, which involves writing and online updates, only got about 20% done. Not great, I know. But I invested more time in work to ensure a stress-free Labor Day Holiday.

I Survived without Music Banging in My Head 24H

Here’s something weird: I barely listened to music this week, unlike usual. The scenery here is mind-blowing, and I’m pretty isolated, so I mostly kept myself company. It can be lonely, but solo travel feels so different. I can’t say I love the feeling yet – this is all an experiment. Maybe a clearer understanding will come after the trip. Sometimes, you can’t think straight when you’re in the thick of things. It takes time for experiences to gain meaning. So, is solo travel lonely? At times, yes, but the solitude also offers moments of deep self-reflection.

Regardless, I’m proud of myself for being so independent and brave on this solo adventure. Being alone doesn’t necessarily mean loneliness, it just means being with myself more than usual.

You Don’t Need Anyone Who Isn’t Good Enough for YOU

Last night, I re-evaluated going to Bali since my friend bailed. I think I’ll still go. We change plans for others too often. Why not just live life on our own terms? Right? The question is solo travel lonely? Maybe, but at the end of the day, I’d rather travel alone than with someone who doesn’t match my energy.

Speaking of living life, I devoured romance movies this week because reading before bed just wasn’t happening. “Before Sunrise” and “Before Sunset” had me in tears. And Ryan Gosling in “The Notebook“? Major swoon. Love letters have always been a dream of mine. Imagine getting a year’s worth of letters, like the 365 the man wrote in that movie. The dedication, the thoughtfulness behind it all… incredibly romantic.

Should I give up on love? Never! I might never meet someone that ridiculously in love with me, but I’ll stay hopeful until the very end. Love is what makes life worth living. Even if I can’t find it, I believe in it.

Love myself before anyone who is Lucky enough to love me – I’m definitely worth the most amazing love in the world. You as well!