Life is meant to be woven with ups and downs. No one actually lives a life without pain, and no one lives a life filled only with trouble and suffering.

That’s why I’ve set the tone for my 2026 as having an Amazingly Gorgeous Rhythm: each week, I note one high and one low, reminding myself that a beautiful life unfolds through both — and that living for passion and self-love means staying true to myself through it all.

With Week 4 behind me and February now beginning, last week was, all in all, well-lived.

75-Hard Challenge Update

I stuck to my 75-hard challenge for another week. As I document this, I’ve reached the 32nd consecutive day out of 75—a milestone in itself. I believe this self-challenge has helped me live more intentionally lately. Late-night events were mostly turned down, and I don’t feel guilty for missing out on friends or parties. I genuinely feel like I have better missions to accomplish each day.

If you’re like me and want to enhance passion and self-love in your life, one of the best ways is to structure your days with meaningful tasks. Here are some ideas that worked for me:

• Take on a small daily challenge: Something like my 75-hard challenge keeps your days purposeful. Completing little tasks makes you feel productive and fulfilled.
• Do what fuels your mind: Read a book, write reflections, or explore ideas that excite you. It doesn’t have to be long, just consistent.
• Prioritize self-care: Even small routines—like a morning walk, a healthy meal, or journaling—can anchor your day in self-love.
• Spend time with people or activities that inspire you: A spontaneous coffee with a friend, starting a book club, or simply sharing ideas can make your day richer.

By integrating these simple steps into your daily life, you create moments of fulfillment, even on ordinary days. You feel in charge of your time, and your days feel meaningful—because you’re actively living for what matters to you.

Though I’m not sure exactly what this 75-hard challenge will bring to my life, I feel like I’m doing the right thing and spending each day with a purpose that feels worthwhile.

High Note of the Week: Secret Fallina Bookclub

Wednesday afternoon was a highlight of the week. I went for coffee with a friend, and we spontaneously decided to start a book club together. I still can’t believe how wonderfully spontaneous it all was. Moments like these remind me of the joy in living for passion and self-love—sharing ideas, exploring books, and documenting life along the way.

We came up with a name—Secret Fallina Bookclub—and since that day, we’ve been passionately discussing our daily readings and imagining a grand future together.

Since my business isn’t taking off anytime soon, I started to wonder: is it really possible to make a living doing only what I’m passionate about? My honest answer is yes. I don’t know exactly how to get there yet, but I’m exploring it every day. I feel more fulfilled, even without making money just yet. I have faith.

Low Note of the Week: The Return of an Ex

A guy I used to date came back into my life. We met and caught up for a bit. I could feel that he still likes me, but his actions were unclear, and that seriously messed with my mind. I found myself overthinking relationships and feeling awful about life again. I even questioned my own worth simply because I haven’t found “the right man” yet.

I don’t even think I still like this guy much, so why did his return mess with me so strongly? I don’t know.

Luckily, I didn’t dwell on it for too long. Staying committed to my routines and challenges is part of living for passion and self-love, keeping me grounded even when old attachments resurface. By the third day of our reunion, I no longer felt the need to wait for his messages or clarification. I moved on with my beautiful life. I have friends and amazing things I can’t wait to wake up for—why stumble over relationships that won’t work?

I read a line just the other day: death and love are not things you can work for. They come in their own time. You just keep living your life. I felt the power of that truth. I know there will still be days when old relationship or attachment issues creep in, but I also know I’m becoming more resilient each time. I choose myself, and those who don’t deserve me simply don’t deserve to enter my life. This is a vital part of living for passion and self-love—raising my standards and learning to embrace life fully, even without a relationship. I will always love myself—nothing less.

I believe the worst-case scenario in life most of the time won’t come. And if it does, I’m okay with being happily single. But if not, when the time for love arrives, I’ll be ready to fully embrace it—with 100% readiness.

Okay, those are my reflections and random thoughts from last week. How’s your life been lately?